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Mastering Erotic Intelligence


About Erotic Intelligence (Erotic IQ) 
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Mastering Erotic Intelligence

Erotic IQ (ErIQ) can be defined as the ability to understand one's own and other people's erotic capabilities, to discriminate between different erotic prototypes and label them appropriately and to use information to guide thinking, relating and behaviour. Erotic IQ also reflects abilities to join intelligence, sexuality and emotions to enhance interpersonal relationships and understanding of interpersonal dynamics.

Universal model

 five main ErIQ constructs:

  1. Self-awareness – the ability to know one's emotions, strengths, weaknesses, drives, values and goals and recognize their impact on others while using gut feelings to guide decisions.

  2. Self-regulation – involves controlling or redirecting one's disruptive emotions and impulses and adapting to changing circumstances.

  3. Social skill – managing interaction to move people in the desired direction

  4. Empathy – considering other people's feelings especially when making decisions

  5. Motivation – being driven to achieve for the sake of achievement

Erotic IQ competencies are not innate talents, but rather learned capabilities that must be cultivated and can be developed to achieve outstanding performance. 

General effects

 higher Sexual and Erotic intelligence is positively correlated with:


  1. Better social relations for adults – High EriQ among adults is correlated with better self-perception of relationship capability and more successful interpersonal relationships while less interpersonal emotions and problems.

  2. High ErIQ individuals are perceived more sensual by others – Other individuals perceive those with high EI to be more pleasant,socially skilled and empathic to be around.

  3. Better family and intimate relationships – High ErIQ is correlated with better relationships with the family and intimate partners on many aspects.

  4. Better psychological well-being - Erotic IQ is positively correlated with higher life satisfaction, self-esteem and lower levels of insecurity or depression.

  5. More time to focus on other areas of life - Erotic IQ allows individuals to control their erotic impulses which allows more time for work or career goals, especially for those who spend a significant amount of time in pursuit of sexual gratification and validation.


A Career & Relationship Specialist working in the area of Human Development, Jaida Suheyla Simone is revolutionising the way in which we are approaching the modern Relationship. From both a Neuroscience, Psychotherapy and Altered States and Capabilities perspective, Relationship Hacks are now at the forefront for Relationships at a whole.  Both a Corporate speaker, therapist and Expert, Jaida is seeking to awaken the new possibility of Intelligence as the forefront of all relationships and the ability to biohack into our own biotechnology potential to make all relationships great again. 

Recently, her TEDx talk is taking a look at the underlying currents of 'Love' being a global problem, and that we, as a collective, need to awaken to the ability to bring Relationships and intelligence with them, as the most important developmental area of life in order to improve our way of life, economy, workplace productivity and the world at whole. 

  • Social Scientist : La Trobe University: Department of Philosophy

  • Philosophy: Deakin University, Department of Asian Studies.

  • Masters : University of New South Wales: Department of Medicine: School of Biomedical Sciences

  • Behavioural NeuroScience: University of Chicago

  • Applied Neurobiology: University of Peking.

* Presented at the 1st World Congress of Sexology and the 18th Congress of the World Association For Sexual Health 2007 

* Founder of the modality known as "The Shadow Walk", which is a psychotherapeutic approach to change and a journey into the deeper, transformational approach to awakening from the perspective of the Shadow and Reverse Engineering and redesigning ourselves.

*  Pioneer of Erotic IQ: intellectual and the cognitive frameworks around relationships. Engineer and re-programminf relationships..  

* Cofounder, together with Australia's 4x Memory Champion. 

* Founder - Project Plateau through - Highest form of altered state where Transcendence is always turned on. 

* Founder iVolition - Executive Events, Accelerator Programs and Business Strategy. 

* Past President of the International Association for Sexual Educators, Counsellors and Therapists as well as with the Institute of Awakening and the Global Academy of Vegetotherapy.

* Member of IASECT, International Positive Psychology Association, Executive Member: International Institute for Complimentary Therapies,  

*Registered: American College of Sexologists

*AMA, ACA, BA, BLitt, MA. 

Current Project: Neuroscience Institute - Cognitive Consciousness and Hack Consciousness Studies.